“Facebook Friending” Etiquette?
Why do people that I don’t already know, with no info viewable on their profile, add me as a friend without an accompanying message? What’s with that?
To me, that’s the same thing as going to a networking event, handing your card over to a stranger, and walking away. Except that the card has a little more info on it. So maybe that’s even better than “anonymous friending.”
I know… I’m not perfect.
I have been guilty of this in the past as well. But usually I try to add a note reminding them of how we met, or letting them know why I would like to connect. And my profile info is completely viewable to everyone, so they can take a look at what I’m about and make the decision to accept or not.
And considering how important first impressions can be, why not take 15 seconds to type a nice short note?
Have fun out there on Facebookland!
Best,
Jason
P.S. By the way, feel free to add me if you like my blog posts or want to get to know me better http://facebook.com/BizCoachJason. Just let me know how you found me :)




Another great idea Jason. Putting in a message is good manners! Thx for the tip!
Cathy Pelzman
Thanks, Cathy! I’m glad you found it helpful :)