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	<title>Distinctive Coaching for Small Business Success - Oak Park/Chicago, IL and Beyond &#187; Business relationships</title>
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		<title>Get More Referrals in Two Easy Steps</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2010 18:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Rosado</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Small Biz TIP of the DAY is up at http://facebook.com/GrowYourBiz 
Want to GET MORE REFERRALS from your current clients?
Here&#8217;s how in TWO EASY STEPS that you CAN DO TODAY&#8230;
1.) Start a dialog with the question, “What has been the most helpful for you about our work together so far?”
Asking this question helps to reaffirm and reinforce the value [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Small Biz TIP of the DAY is up at <a href="http://facebook.com/GrowYourBiz">http://facebook.com/GrowYourBiz</a> </p>
<h3>Want to GET MORE REFERRALS from your current clients?</h3>
<p>Here&#8217;s how in TWO EASY STEPS that you CAN DO TODAY&#8230;</p>
<p>1.) Start a dialog with the question, “What has been the most helpful for you about our work together so far?”</p>
<p>Asking this question helps to reaffirm and reinforce the value they’ve received from you, in their words and from their point of view.</p>
<p>2.) Then follow up with, “I’m looking for more clients right now. Do you know anyone that would also benefit from ____ (repeat their stated value, in their own words)?”</p>
<h4>For more quick, easy business growth tips like this, go to &gt; <a href="http://facebook.com/GrowYourBiz">http://facebook.com/GrowYourBiz</a> &lt;</h4>
<p>Don&#8217;t forget to &#8220;LIKE&#8221; it, and add your introduction of your business to The Wall, for the other Fans to see!</p>
<p>Getting the word out about your business on Facebook is one of the best, fastest ways to grow a following and get more people excited about how you can help them.</p>
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		<title>Increasing Your Sales Call Effectiveness and Baseball &#8211; What Do They Have in Common?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Rosado</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day someone asked me what the goal of a sales call should be. And it got me thinking about baseball.
Even if you’re not a baseball fan, stick with me here. I’m talking about how to implement your sales game plan to gear up for a long, successful season.
Actually, I’m more of a football [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other day someone asked me what the goal of a sales call should be. And it got me thinking about baseball.<a href="http://www.distinctivecoaching.com/word/wp-content/uploads/Baseball-Sales.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-935" title="Baseball = Sales" src="http://www.distinctivecoaching.com/word/wp-content/uploads/Baseball-Sales-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>Even if you’re not a baseball fan, stick with me here. I’m talking about how to implement your sales game plan to gear up for a long, successful season.</p>
<p>Actually, I’m more of a football and basketball fan myself, but this baseball analogy made too much sense to pass up.</p>
<p>But first, let’s talk about how your philosophy can impact your overall game.</p>
<p>I work with my clients to transform their sales philosophy so “sales” is equated with “service,” no matter where the prospect is in the sales cycle.</p>
<p><strong>“Sales = Service”</strong></p>
<p>The goal of your sales call is to find a way to offer help and work with that prospect (not “pitch to” them) towards realizing some value gained from your interaction. That value you provide should be appropriate and proportionate to your own business goals and needs.</p>
<p>So when you contact a prospect, the main question on your agenda should be:</p>
<p><strong><em>“How can I help this person make their job and life better?”</em></strong></p>
<p>This approach solves A LOT of confusion, anxiety and uncertainty, and it also creates a very effective, ethical and enjoyable sales process for both parties.</p>
<p>If the result of your contact ends up simply being the chance for you to give some advice, resources or other form of value, great. They’ll appreciate and remember you for it.</p>
<p>If the outcome is to set up a face-to-face, phone or web meeting to offer more time for an in-depth conversation, solution or advisory session, even better.</p>
<p>If your call ends up being a sale that’s going to solve all their problems, that’s obviously awesome.</p>
<p>But even if it turns out that they don&#8217;t need your help, that’s good, too. Either it isn&#8217;t and won&#8217;t be a good fit for you to work together, or it just isn’t the right time for them *right now*. You can assess that, so you know how and when to move forward with them, and that is time well spent.</p>
<p>Remember, it takes time to develop a relationship, and this is how successfully closed sales are built - over the course of productive and mutually beneficial interactions and conversations.</p>
<p>In terms of progress during the sale cycle, let’s get back to our baseball analogy, because this is where it gets really important and most sales professionals strike out:</p>
<p><strong>You don’t need to hit a homerun every time.  </strong></p>
<p>Actually, <strong>don’t even try</strong> to hit a homerun every time.</p>
<p>The risk/reward ratio is in your favor to just get on base &#8211; make small victories that build &#8211; rather than striking out most often with the hope you’ll hit one out of the park once in a while. Those probably won’t happen fast enough, and you’ll be out of the game in no time at all.</p>
<p>So by thinking and acting in terms of providing service when you’re up to bat, you’ll hear the crowd go wild, you’ll advance your runner, and you’ll safely cross home plate more often.</p>
<p>And the best part &#8211; Everyone wins.</p>
<p>Play ball!</p>
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		<title>Is speaking really one of the best ways to market your business?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 18:54:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Rosado</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As many of my clients know, one great way to market yourself and make more sales for your business is to speak in front of an audience.
You can learn to do workshops, teleclasses and keynotes much more easily than you might realize.
&#8220;But public speaking scares me to death!&#8221;
Even those of you that get terrified at the thought [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As many of my clients know, one great way to market yourself and make more sales for your business is to speak in front of an audience.<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-867" title="BizCoach Jason Rosado in action" src="http://www.distinctivecoaching.com/word/wp-content/uploads/Training-Windows-Mobile-for-Microsoft-at-a-T-Mobile-Seminar.jpg" alt="BizCoach Jason Rosado in action" width="143" height="182" /></p>
<p>You can learn to do workshops, teleclasses and keynotes much more easily than you might realize.</p>
<h5>&#8220;But public speaking scares me to death!&#8221;</h5>
<p>Even those of you that get terrified at the thought of speaking in front of others can become great and really enjoy this by taking a few very easy steps:</p>
<ul>
<li>Speak about topics that you know very well</li>
<li>Speak about what you are truly passionate about</li>
<li>Speak to people that you really enjoy helping and working with</li>
<li>To start, speak in an environment that makes you most comfortable - and you can create, mold and shape that environment in several ways</li>
<li>Practice, practice, practice</li>
</ul>
<p>Not only is speaking great advertising for you both pre-, post- and during the event, but it also helps generate cash flow from speaking fees and sales you make because of it.</p>
<h5>Ok.. so now I have a topic and an offer to speak, but what if no one shows up?</h5>
<p>A lesson I learned a while ago (the hard way) is that it&#8217;s  important to help promote the event, so it&#8217;s a win-win for you and the event organizer.</p>
<p>One of the first times I was asked to speak, I felt great, and I was very honored. But I didn&#8217;t feel humble at all.</p>
<p>I thought, “Finally, here is something I am going to get paid for, and I don&#8217;t have to lift a finger to market it myself.”</p>
<p>I was getting paid to just show up, deliver content and value during the event, and be on my merry way. People would love it, I would make sales, and the event organizer was absolutely on the same page.</p>
<p>Well, that turned out to be very shortsighted of me.</p>
<p>For one thing, the event organizer did a terrible job with marketing, and the event was sparsely attended. Although the presentation went well, I made less money and had less opportunity to market and make sales at the event.</p>
<p>I learned my lesson.</p>
<p>If you market an event that you are speaking at, you will likely get more attendees. And those attendees that you bring will already be fans of yours, and perhaps current or former clients. They will be able to testify on your behalf, and they will also become even more familiar with you and your expertise, thereby becoming closer to being a client of yours, if they weren&#8217;t already.</p>
<h5>It&#8217;s much easier to market and sell to people that have familiarity with you than those that don&#8217;t.</h5>
<p>And it&#8217;s much more fun and ethically fulfilling as well.</p>
<p>Also, by bringing guests to someone else&#8217;s event, the event organizer will love you. They will become a bigger fan of yours. Even just seeing the effort that you put forth in trying to get guests will make a big impact with them.  And they see that your event was one of their best attended, they will recommend you for other speaking engagements.</p>
<p>Lastly, you can control the quality and quantity of the marketing by being active in the process. Not all meeting and event organizers are great marketers, as I learned. And no one knows your strengths and selling points as well as you do.</p>
<p>By providing your own marketing copy to the organizer - material that you know has a great chance to bring in a crowd &#8211; you are providing more value to your attendees by letting them get to know you pre-event as well as what to expect during and even perhaps after the event. You are also reducing the amount of work the organizer has to do and strengthening that relationship. And all this is happening while you are multiplying your exposure by promoting the event yourself as well.</p>
<h5>I&#8217;ve used these techniques to help my own clients, and to increase my value, my revenue and my client base from speaking, and I&#8217;d be happy to help you as well.</h5>
<p>Please feel free to <a href="http://www.DistinctiveCoaching.com/Contact/"><strong>contact me</strong></a><strong> if you would like to learn more about event speaking and marketing</strong>, and how doing these things can really help you to explode your business!</p>
<p>To your success,<br />
Jason</p>
<p><a href="http://www.DistinctiveCoaching.com/Events/">Where is BizCoachJason Rosado speaking next? Check the Events page here, or have him speak at your event!</a></p>
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		<title>Bad publicity? Nah&#8230; just ask Ron Artest. Then grab a drink and listen up.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 00:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Rosado</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A story from today’s Sports section of the Chicago Sun-Times made me think back to an interesting marketing lesson I learned in my early 20’s.
You see, one of my former bosses &#8211; a small business owner himself &#8211; used to say “There’s no such thing as bad publicity.”
So one day he was ecstatic when we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A story from today’s Sports section of the Chicago Sun-Times made me think back to an interesting marketing lesson I learned in my early 20’s.</p>
<p>You see, one of my former bosses &#8211; a small business owner himself &#8211; used to say <strong>“There’s no such thing as bad publicity.”</strong></p>
<p>So one day he was ecstatic when we were given a “cease and desist” order by Paramount Pictures for trademark infringement, with all the fixings, including a threat for a law-suit.</p>
<p>When he opened that letter, he was literally jumping for joy in his office and yelled for me to come in and hear the great news he had to share.</p>
<p>He showed me the letter from Paramount’s lawyers, and he had a smile ear-to-ear. He was downright gitty. I on the other hand, at the tender age of 23 and as the managing partner of the target business in question, had dropped my jaw on the floor and paralyzed with fear, felt like a deer in headlights.</p>
<p>Then he told me to lighten up and said this was one of the best things to happen.</p>
<p>We called the local newspapers and played up this “David vs. Goliath” story. The papers sent reporters and photographers to get an interview and pictures.</p>
<p>The publicity didn’t turn the business completely around, but we enjoyed a slight bump in revenue during the process and had a good laugh, too. The legal order really turned into a non-issue. We negotiated, and each side made concessions. It was settled easily with almost no cost to us.</p>
<p>But, getting back to today’s sports section and how news affects public relations and marketing&#8230;</p>
<div class="mceTemp"><strong><a href="http://www.suntimes.com/sports/jackson/1918286,CST-SPT-jax03.article" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-719" title="ron_artest_bulls" src="http://www.distinctivecoaching.com/word/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/ron_artest_bulls1.jpg" alt="ron_artest_bulls" width="156" height="130" /></a>Ron Artest</strong>, a former Chicago Bulls player who was a tough defender but labeled a problem child by many was traded away from the team in 2002. He is still in the league, playing for the Lakers. Yesterday in an interview with Sporting News, he told many colorful stories about his acts, misdeeds and philosophies that shed light on his current beliefs about himself and his attitudes about being a NBA player.</div>
<p>The whole interview brought questions into my head about <strong>“What is good PR and what is bad PR?”</strong></p>
<p>But one quote in particular made my head spin.</p>
<p>How did Artest deal with losing on a consistent basis in the Bulls games during those tough, many-loss seasons of rebuilding after the championship years?</p>
<p>Said Artest,<strong> “I used to drink Hennessy at halftime.”</strong></p>
<p>Wait&#8230;  What?</p>
<p>Yes. Artest said that he used to go to the liquor store down the street from the United Center and buy Hennessy, which he would keep in his locker and <a href="http://www.suntimes.com/sports/jackson/1918286,CST-SPT-jax03.article" target="_blank">swig down during halftime</a> of games during those dark Bulls years.</p>
<p>He spoke about the infamous <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pacers%E2%80%93Pistons_brawl" target="_blank">brawl at the Palace of Auburn Hills in 2004</a>, in which he and his Pacer teammates and Pistons players got into a fight that ended up in the stands. He also spoke about other things he’s done on his many teams.</p>
<p>But that quote about drinking during halftime really stuck out to me. As soon as I heard it, I thought, “Wow.. I bet the NBA is really happy with this PR!” And it made me think about my old boss and his philosophy on publicity.</p>
<p>Assuming it’s true, and there is no such thing as bad publicity, I really want to know:</p>
<p>Aside from Sporting News, who is the big PR winner from this interview?</p>
<p>A. Ron Artest<br />
B. The Bulls<br />
C. The Lakers<br />
D. The NBA<br />
E. Hennessey Cognac<br />
F. Too close to call</p>
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		<title>May I Repeat?: &#8220;You MUST REPEAT!&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 22:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason Rosado</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The below was posted by Vincent Wright, on http://MyVirtualPowerForum.com 
I love his perspective, and his message is spot-on, so I thought I would pass it along.
This is really important to keep in mind not only for online networking, but offline as well. It&#8217;s important to keep going to the same networking groups regularly, get to know [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The below was posted by Vincent Wright, on <a href="http://MyVirtualPowerForum.com">http://MyVirtualPowerForum.com</a> </p>
<p>I love his perspective, and his message is spot-on, so I thought I would pass it along.</p>
<p>This is really important to keep in mind not only for online networking, but offline as well. It&#8217;s important to keep going to the same networking groups regularly, get to know the other members and foster personal relationships. The more times you connect, the more familiar and well-liked you will be!</p>
<p>&#8220;Proximity fosters familiarity.&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an old and true principle of social psychology. Repetition obviously has the same effect.</p>
<p>Thanks for the reminder and examples, Vincent!</p>
<p>Best,<br />
Jason<br />
<a href="http://www.AchieveYourIdealBusiness.com">http://www.AchieveYourIdealBusiness.com</a> </p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;</p>
<p><strong>*** May I Repeat?: &#8220;You MUST REPEAT!&#8221; ***</strong></p>
<p>Like you, I&#8217;ve had many, many, many people contact me ONCE!</p>
<p>But, where is the human mind/brain that can remember each person they meet after only exchanging a name, an email, a handshake one time?</p>
<p>While you may find one or two people on the planet who have that unusual capacity, we instinctively know that that talent is SUPER-RARE!</p>
<p>So, why do we behave sadly if we contact someone once and they don&#8217;t remember our name?</p>
<p>We have to HELP OURSELVES BECOME FAMOUS TO THE PEOPLE WHOSE HELP WE NEED!</p>
<p>The way to become famous to someone?</p>
<p>The same way Coca Cola, Apple Computer, GEICO Insurance, Dell Computer, Tiger Woods, CNN, Twitter, Facebook, and Linkedin have become famous to us: via REPETITION&#8230;</p>
<p>Note: Please consider how GEICO uses creative variations in its commercials. They do so to the extent that they&#8217;ve become as famous for their creative commercials as they have for their insurance products and services&#8230;</p>
<p>Be creative in your repetitions and remember: if you need someone, repeat your message to them &#8211; - &#8211; our children do&#8230;and we LOVE them! </p>
<p>&#8211;</p>
<p>Thanks, and Keep STRONG!!<br />
Vincent Wright<br />
Director Of Community<br />
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